As We Move Towards the Season of Honoring the Dead, Who Counts as an "Ancestor"?
The answer might be more broad than you think...
Beginning an ancestral veneration practice can be frightening for many, especially those (like myself) who come from a lineage where there has been a record of violence and woundedness. Others may be interested in starting a practice but have no clue where to start culturally or ritually whether it be because of colonialism, racism, and/or adoption. There’s a good deal to contend with when beginning a practice, and my hopes with this post is to give you an idea of where to begin if your blood family is a rough spot to start.
We all have ancestors, both bloodline and those of spirit. For some of us, our ancestors are known and celebrated, others are unknown, unacknowledged, or may be dangerous to connect with. Commonly, folks view ancestors as those who came before you in your bloodline; however, I (and many other witches and spirit workers) believe that ancestors are more than just who’s DNA we hold.
Let’s explore some non-blood related ancestors below!
Non-Bloodline Ancestors
I consider “lineage” ancestors to be those we are connected with in some capacity via “family” but not on a DNA level. This includes the parents of a step-parent, ancestors from our adopted family members, or we may have ancestors who have cared for us in other ways. Sometimes we may connect with the lineage of our best friends, or those who are family friends but who were around all our childhood in the way family is meant to.
Aside from our lineage ancestors, we also have ancestors who we never met but who play an important role in our lives. Folks who are Queer may have Queer people who paved the way for more rights who they choose to honor in their practice. We may have ancestors we look up to who were involved in the Civil Rights Movement or in advocating in some capacity. Just because you never met some of these people does not mean you cannot actively venerate them, say prayers to them, and give gratitude to them.
Creative Ancestors
Aside from ancestors linked to our identity and those linked to causes we advocate for, we can also choose to venerate ancestors who have inspired us as artists. Those whose art we look up to and whose work has shaped us can be honored as ancestors to us as well. We can set up their artwork, their books, and their music, and honor them with offerings in the same way we would honor our family’s spirits. I often find that spirits of artists are eager to be venerated and they are easy to tune in to and can help you grow as an artist or creative.
Plant Ancestors
Many of the plants that surround us and support us are our ancestors. We can consider them to be teachers and healers in addition to being food as well. Plants are very much alive and also have their own individual spirits. For example, Rosemary has its own energy and spirit that differs from that of Basil. At the same time, each individual plant is also a facet of that larger spirit. If you are someone who works with plant medicine for healing (either for self or others) it is very beneficial to work with the plants on an ancestral level, honoring them as you would a loved ancestor. This is a very strong element of a Curanderismo practice.
Mineral Ancestors
You can also consider the mineral ancestors as a part of your ancestral lineage. The mineral ancestors are the rocks and crystals of the Earth. They are also called ‘the Spirits of the Earth’ by some. They are able to support us in our energy and spellwork if we ask them in prayer or meditation. They also lend their own healing properties. I especially like connecting to the crystals as ancestors because most if not all of them have existed beyond the span of human life.
Planet/Star Ancestors
You might think of your ancestors as people, but we can also include the planets and stars. After all, they are the ancestors of the Earth and they are also the ancestors of you. The planets and stars were born before Earth. They were born long before there was an Earth, or a Sun, or a Galaxy, or Cosmos. It is said that everything in this universe came from them, including all life on every planet in this galaxy.
You can connect with many ancestors by honoring all Spirits that inhabit the Earth and Universe.
Sometimes we need to look beyond what literal definitions or what is considered normal or to see other possibilities. It’s not just your genetic lineage that makes you who you are, it’s also the people and Spirits who came before that helped shaped you into who you are today. So think about your ancestors in the traditional sense — both human and animal — but let yourself expand beyond those boundaries. You may find a whole new world opens up when you do!
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Love the inclusion of plants, minerals and stars. 💜